I'm a part-time wedding photographer; I've done perhaps 70 weddings since 2002 (and probably 3-5 per year from '92-'01). For wedding photography, I simply choose a figure for my base photo sevices with which I'm be happy. (Currently it's $1500.) For that amount, I shoot, edit, and deliver an image catalog with all 'selected' shots from the wedding (not every shot I took; I weed out the boring/bad ones), and finally, high resolution JPG's on CD-ROM, with a copyright release.
I also (pre-)sell albums to about 95% of my clients; most of them select an album during the initial consultation. The albums range from $550 to about $1100. I do not have any desire to spend my days placing print orders; nor do I think it's ethical to charge $40 for an 8x10. I want to shoot, edit, make an album, and move on to the next client.
Going back to the early 90's, I have always included negatives (and now "digital negatives") with wedding photography packages. My stance is the photos SHOULD belong to the happy couple, not the photographer. I use this as a selling point, and my clients love it. In many cases it helps me to earn business.
Obviously my thoughts on this subject are not popular with other photographers. To be blunt, I don't mind...this is business, and I run my business the way I need to.