Hi,
You're right, everybody is different, but as far as I'm concerned shooting in the UK market of high-end wedding commissions, here's my basic workflow :
Cameras - Canon 5D's & 20D as spare body
Lenses - 300/2.8, 200/2.8, 28-80/2.8(quite old now!), 24/2.8, 16/2.8
Flash - Elinchrom heads and 90cm sq softboxes (assuming I've got some time in the morning to 'play')
Cards - Lexar, anything from 5-10GB of storage, shooting only RAW
Laptop - Apple G4 15" to clear out the cards, then backup on a LaCie 40GB portable drive before leaving
Office - G5 20" with 1GB RAM, 600GB ext drive, workflow handling with Aperture software
Proofing: on-line (by arrangement) Hard proofing : via Aperture softback book.
Final book: Asuka 80 page EX range
That about covers it I think ..... hope that's maybe of interest.
Cheers,
Mark
http://www.bothwellphoto.com