| Re: My daughters Prom... >> What you refer to is 'poise and grace' not many girls have it natually. But mine does which makes her very easy to photograph more naturally. I find about 1-2 out of 100 senior age girls have it.
This statement bothers me a little, and I think demonstrates a strong underestimation of our clients. Seniors, and any subject for that matter, do not live in a vacuum. Excessive arrogance and attitude on the part of a photographer may simply serve to indimidate a subject so greatly to the extent that any natural poise and grace would be inhibited. Subjects DO depend on us to help them look their best, and they DON'T always understand the ins and outs of what we do, how we do it, or the results we achieve. Are we doing our clients any favors by assuming that there is only a 1-2% chance that they are fools, possessing no natural grace of their own, helpless without our masterfulness? I don't intend to tell someone else how to run their successful business. But I cannot help but question such disparaging remarks, and wonder if what is declared a "good bit of arrogance" isn't really an unsettling amount of narcissim.
TM |