I come from a long history of using commercial strobe equipment, and with digital I hardly ever use my light meter. It was a critical tool when you had to wait for film to come back from the lab to see what your exposures were like, but in this day and age with the ability to instantly check your exposures in the camera, they're not that critical anymore.
I'm a big fan of the automated flash set-ups that Nikon and Canon have. A couple of speed lights and a controller, and you're in business. Here's a shot I did on Saturday, with one Nikon flash held by a wedding guest, and no set up time at all.
I never bring large strobes to weddings any more now that I have this system.
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